The Friends are gathering again –
for the 38th time.
And that means all that’s held sacred
is fair game, all political affiliation is left at the door (or at least that’s
how it’s supposed to work and does 99 percent of the time), all food and drink
are consumed with vigor, and all proceeds are for good causes.
You can read Vito Ciccarelli’scolumn here for the ins and outs of the annual shebang which brings
Lansingburgh natives together from across the street and across the country
just to get their chops busted or maybe get one of the awards. Both are
considered an honor – except the award winners get a plaque and the butt of the
jokes have to smile, sometimes wave and most all the time wish they were
somewhere else ... anywhere else … until it’s the next person’s turn through
the gauntlet.
I wish I could share some of hilarious
jokes I’ve heard in the past (and a couple that made me wish I never accepted
that first invitation more than a few years ago) but then I would certainly
piss off a good portion of The ‘Burgh and that’s something no sane person would
voluntarily do. Sure, there is some truth to South Troy Against the World, but I
sure as hell wouldn’t want to take on every red-blooded male north of 101st
Street either.
So, with that in mind, I will say
it is a pretty good time with plenty of eats and plenty of booze and plenty of
laughs.
Based on Chairman Mick Carrenger’s
appearance on Talk1300, info from Ciccarelli’s column and stuff I’ve picked up
over the years, six Friends who hadn’t seen each other in a while first got
together 38 years ago. They had such a good time they decided to do it again
the following year … and the following year and the year after that too and then
again 34 more times. More and more decided to join in the fun the last Saturday
in February and now the number of Friends is pushing 350.
Amazing, really, that such a
tradition can carry on for so long. It’s not only the draw of eat and drink
that bring the men together – it’s giving back to the community that taught
them how to be men. All the proceeds benefit non-profit organizations and over
the years the Friends have donated thousands of dollars to groups like the
Lasingburgh Boys and Girls Club, baseball leagues, pop warner, Powers Park, The
Flag Day Parade, ALS and the American Cancer Society.
(Sorry ladies, despite the fact
that your gender, by biological default, spawned every man in the room you can’t
come. However, while wives, girlfriends, mistresses and one-night stands are
fair game, mother jokes are not allowed. Well, they are frowned upon … unless
they are really funny then they are laughed at and then frowned upon.)
Generally the evening goes something
like this: Social hour, dinner, remembrance of Friends who are no longer with
us, the awards ceremony (that includes recognitions for athletics, military
service, humanitarian of the year and man of the year), skit (which can be good
and really funny or so bad it’s really funny), and then the speakers.
Anyway, thanks to this year’s committee
that includes Uncle Tucker Hulihan, Gene Blair, Mick Cahrenger, Ron Bounds,
Mike McDonald, Eric Gower, Kevin Vandenburgh, Scott Ryan, and Jim Duff for
keeping a pretty cool tradition alive and well.
Here is the rundown:
-Where: St. Augustine's Hall
-When: Saturday
-Time: 5 p.m. to ?
-Cost: $35 (includes buffet,
dessert, draft beer and soda)
-Tickets: Available from any
committee member or at 41 Sports Bar and Grethen -Cahrenger Memorials